Defamation is especially difficult for individuals undergoing divorce because the damages are potentially life-altering. When an individual makes defamatory statements, they are often trying to make another party look bad in court. Judges understand this.
Still, many of the statements involved in divorce fall under the umbrella of litigation privilege. Privilege allows for immunity from claims of defamation if statements are made in the courtroom during the divorce proceedings. Witness testimony, for instance, is typically not a type of statement that individuals can sue for.
Such privilege does not extend to statements that you make in personal communications. Text messages between your ex-spouse and another person, phone calls, and private messages are all considered defamation. You may need to present evidence of these statements in court.
In some cases, divorce court judges have actually considered the role of defamation in their cases. After spending such a long time in the courtroom, judges often have a good sense of what kinds of statements ex-spouses make against each other.
If your ex-spouse brings in screenshots of social media communications featuring defamatory statements, judges may take this into account when hearing statements you make. Either party making defamatory statements may face consequences in court.
Some judges may consider some forms of defamation to be precursors to parental alienation. Judges take alienation of a parent seriously because it impacts the child's ability to maintain strong, positive relationships with each party.